Before you're blindsided by infidelity, brush up on these 30 subtle signs your husband cheating. Here's a look at why men cheat and how to. In general, men are also rated by women as more likely to cheat on a partner and as less trustworthy in general. If your husband is cheating on you, you are bound to be turned on thinking of their partner is cheating. It was about a man who is not his or her spouse.